During the conversations that took place he  brought up some white lady who I believe we referred to as White Russian. She was a woman whose son he had trained years ago, who was in his orbit but he wasnt serious about. He told me that she popped back up and had some money for him but he didnt want it so he wasnt going to be talking to her because he knew her angle. He also revealed to me that he had been talking again to potential GoodSis #3, that he had since been stringing along for 7 years prior, who he called and told that he would be putting her off a year, for me because I requested that. He said he was considering marrying her again because her child's father did and he wanted to he a father figure to her daughter.

I have a dad who is no my dad but was my mother's boyfriend from the ages of 2 to like 5. He was in an out of my life but he and maintained a close relationship once I became an adult. I talked to him daily and FrampCamp GoodMan did not like our relationship at all. He referred to it as "Me taking advice from another nigga". His disdain was so deep seated that I became reluctant to share that I had talked to him or cool things I learned from him to the point that I just stopped talking a him about him. But, to I guess relate my life to his choice so I could find peace with he said, "maybe I can be a father figure to her daughter and we can have what you and _____have. So since he brought up my relationship I explained to him that existed without him having a relationship with my mother. It was not the same, that man just wanted to be there for me. So I needed to know more.

Seeing all the issues he and I were having and his modest desire for sex, I was trying to understand why he was so determined to have 3 women. I want trying to change his mind I just wanted to understand he motivation. The only answer he could give me was that 

"it 's what I seen my PaPa, dad and uncle's do" and that "thats what he was accustomed to". It would have been great and easier for me to reconcile if he said

"because I love women"...but nope! His motive was the fact that he seen other men that he worshipped, do it.

We also had a long segment about how he only believes my feelings when Im crying. He admitted that and said that he would work on that. We had to stop the in person chat because he had to go to the movies but we continued to text on his was there.